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Now, this does not mean that that is the only thing that I do in India [chuckles], so, don't judge, and no conjectures, please! And this is also not a clarification or a justification talk. I think it is important for people to know a few things. This is like the 'Safe Gay Dating Tips' Part-2 video.

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I've not reached such a pathetic stage in my life [ki] that I would PAY FOR SEX or GET A MASSAGE FOR FREE. These are two very important principles that I have for myself. In the sense, that is where it starts from. We know that Sex Tourism in Thailand is real, and majority of the people, specially westerners, come here for just that. There's nothing wrong with that. That is not what I'm saying. And Thai people are also trying to change that perception as well, which is a good thing, for sure. But we know that Sex Tourism or the Sex Industry in Thailand is real. So, that is the reason why it is important for me to say such a thing.

I come here for Shopping. I get a few things here that I do not get in India, or may be I've not been to Mumbai. I should. I just realized that I've come more number of times to Bangkok than I've [sniggers] been to Mumbai. Such a shame. But as far as the Sex Tourism is concerned, why would I do those things here, when I can get cuter guys in my own city.

With that said, there are extremely cute guys in Thailand. I mean, I can't stare at them, but then I keep looking at them. In the sense, they're so cute, so soft [chuckles]... no hair on the body [sniggers] at all. What am I talking!? But they're sweet. They're very cute. But not all of them are Gay, isn't it? And the ones on Grindr are MBs. Money Boys, looking for money. Their rates were lower [snickers] before the lockdown. Now it is like 2,500 Baht or something. 5,000 (Indian) Rupees. And it's not about money. Like I said. You know, [agar kisi ko kuchh karna hi hai] if someone wants to do something, anyway, that person would hire a person for, say, 7 days, but, first that is, personally, against my principles, and, secondly, I think that SEX is Incomplete, or vapid, insipid, dry, tasteless without LOVE.

Hold on, before you think that this talk is spiritual, I think, one of the most important reasons that I do not hook-up, in general, in Bangkok, or Thailand, or, basically, outside of my country OR why I don't visit these Gay Bars, or Clubs, or Spas, or Saunas, is the different cultures, different lifestyles, or habits - the food that they eat is not what I eat, and it is very important to know that when you kiss someone [chuckles] - and I'm a passionate kisser - when you kiss someone, the DNA of that person stays in your mouth for at least an hour. [Mera DNA], I mean, if my DNA goes to somebody else that's fine, but you know how (promiscuous) Gay guys are, isn't it? [snickers]. Besides the DNA-exchange part, you never know where that person has been before you. Specially, if you're paying - even if you're not - you never know what that person might be carrying, first of all, in terms of diseases, or illnesses, or any types of infections - known or unknown - you have no idea of what's going on in this world, so, you want to be safe from that very important HEALTH aspect for sure. And secondly, you never know the intentions of the other person. If you call someone in your hotel room... you never know what that person could be up to, as well, isn't it? Again, also, how someone looks in photos may not be how that person is in real, so, why do you want to go through all of those cycles, and unnecessarily waste your time, waste your money, sometimes, run the risk of inviting unknown people into your room or hotel, or whatever. Even you going somewhere else, specially to their place, is an even more riskier thing, isn't it? So, why do you want to take risks or carry out unnecessary actions that could lead to untoward situations? Yes, those things can happen in your home country as well, but there you are more in control, you have more knowledge, and you know the language, isn't it? Moreover, your body is not that cheap for you to share it with anybody and everybody.

With that said - to summarize or end this talk - here's a revelation. Nobody approached me for sex during my youth as much as they've been doing ever since I've turned 39. I have met a couple of people after 39, and those "encounters" have been very sweet. They have been very special, very nice, memorable, for sure, and I'm just happy. I'm not promiscuous. That I can assure everybody. And it is not good to be promiscuous. This talk (may) will not make sense to everybody. Some people will attack me. They'll be like - "Who the F are to say that promiscuity is bad?" - but the name of this Channel is not, "Sagar", or "Fun with Sagar", or "Frivolous Sagar", or "Sleep with Sagar", isn't it? [sniggers]. It is 'Awaken with Sagar'. So, there are some reasons behind some of the things that are being discussed here, so, I am not promiscuous, and I'm happy the way I am. I'm glad that I've been able to connect with a couple of people at least - even if it on bed - I've had those really nice memories, and long way to go [chortles]. Not on the bed. What I mean to say is - IN LIFE. In general. What I'm looking for - is - I don't know where! Until then, I wouldn't say that I have been kissing frogs. I do not really want to kiss many frogs, because like I said - my DNA going into somebody else would be very good. That person would become a little more intelligent [embarrassing sound], but meeting someone who has had sex with a hundred people means that you are having sex with those hundred people indirectly. SELECTIVE is the keyword here.

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