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A survey had happened in the U.S. in 2019 as part of which it was discovered that many males who transitioned into women realized after that transition that it was not required.

What does LOVE IS LOVE mean? It means that when you see a Boy and Girl kissing in a shopping mall, then it does not mean that you're looking at the heterosexual thing. It means that you're trying to experience that Love. It means that you wish for similar romance to happen in your life. It means that you want that kiss in your life.

Even if I have criticized bisexual people, then, first of all, I haven't criticized bisexuality. I've criticized those few confused bisexual people who call themselves bisexual just out of that confusion, and who just come (here) just for timepass.

I really have to think about this, because then people yell at me. They come and question me as to why you said that. The one whom I said absconded with my 15,000 rupees called me and fired me justifying that he didn't abscond. It is called absconding, because when I asked him not to stay in contact, just agreed to that, but he could've transferred the money to my number, right? Money matters are separate. That's what absconding means. What I'd said about married guys. I'd mentioned about a 'shameless' guy.

People just come over and argue with me as to why I said that.

Today's question is: I am 43 yrs old single and Gay, whenever I see any guy who is of my preference I started continuously looking on him,and start thinking I am with him,Plus being a Gay I imagine is guy is having Good sex with women and I get erected by this visually thinking.I can't imagine my self with any women,I know very clearly about my sexuality but I am Confused while it comes to masterbating I think one women and a my Dream guy is having a Good sex and I wish this guy is gay and have sex with me,I am confused being a gay why I am thinking or imagine about man and women sex and some time watching straight porn as well,but in this case also my intention to see the man and this body rather than women's body, please Suggest me how to come out from this imagination.evdn today writing of the message is i saw a man with open shirt and Good body and started thinking about this man having good sex with women.

If you have the attraction, you have the attraction. The most important thing that I appreciate here is that this guy is clear about his sexuality. He is clear that he is Gay. He is Single. He is 43. He's from Mumbai. So, obviously, that is a bigger city with more liberty and freedom to do certain things. The imagination or experiences that happen there or anything that we try to think or do has more probability or scope of occurrence in bigger cities. Or cities in which you see things happening in front of your eyes. Therefore, such confusion also, sometimes, keeps increasing. However, it's OKAY. It is okay if you watch straight content. It is okay if you imagine that guy with yourself or with another, specially woman, because he's straight, and you feel something as a result of that. So, first and foremost, remember, IT IS OKAY.

It has been found in many surveys that a male's chances of watching adult entertainment are much higher than that of a female, which results in the fact that Adult Entertainment is primarily made for men, by men. Now, that is not a conclusive statement, I'm saying 'primarily'. However, it is about fantasies. It is about you wanting to experience something that you, probably, have not experienced, or you, probably, will never experience. Like it is possible that you see yourself in that woman's position, OR it is possible that you are trying to see something, and experience something that you have not experienced in your Sex Life or something that you don't practice. That is why you want to see it happening in front of you. So, it is about fantasies. It is not something that you can clearly put into words, and then form definitions around that - like this is how it is and this is how it it supposed to be. It's the human Mind, isn't it? Sometimes, we want to go outside our boundaries, and explore things, and give ourselves those experiences, which is why we watch certain content, which we know that we're never going to experience in our own lives as well. So, whatever you're watching in order to give yourself those experiences, the only thing that you need to ask yourself is whether you're happy and enjoying watching what you're watching.

These days what has happened is that we put everything into boxes. Because we receive a lot of information via the Social Media, and a lot of new terminology has been created by these new generations, so, the "more" there is, the more confusion there is. Like if we go to a Perfume Shop, and test many perfumes, then the confusion increases as well. After a point, all perfumes start smelling the same. So, it is not necessary that 'Gay' and 'Straight' are the only two categories. There are things in between them as well.

What does Being Gay mean? 'Gay' is not just me wanting to have sex with a same-sex person. Right? That I'm a male, and I just want to sleep / have sex with another male... is not what 'Being Gay' is about. It's not just that. That is, probably, the manifestation. That is the result of your feelings. Being Gay is more about what's happening INSIDE of your Mind, your Energy, and your Thinking. That is where your 'Gayness' is defined, isn't it? There is masculine and feminine energy inside each person. That percentage varies from person-to-person. There can be a lot of femininity inside a male, and there can be a lot of masculinity inside a female. That does not mean that every feminine guy is Gay or every masculine girl is a Lesbian.

If you're Gay and you watch something heterosexual, then it does not mean that you're doing something wrong. You're trying to extract something homosexual from that too... or the essence of homosexuality from that. Like I also said in my Coming Out video about the song, 'Sun Sahiba Sun'... when I watched Hero-Heroines in the 90s, then, of course, that was the 90s. The thinking was - if I'm attracted towards men, my mother used to wonder why I'm trying to be a girl while writing letters to guys! I never understood that, but I realized quite late in my life that in order to magnetize / attract a male towards me, I don't have to be a girl. If I want a same-sex Gay partner in my life, then since a Gay Male would be attracted towards a Male only, so, I will have to be a good guy, and not a good girl.

You asked, 'How to come out of this confusion?'. There is no confusion. It is perfectly fine. If you're Gay and attracted towards Heterosexual Adult Content, it is fine. It is perfectly fine. Because, like I said, within that too, you're trying to satisfy your own feelings. If there's no Heterosexuality inside of you, then it is fine. You will simply not be attracted towards the heterosexual aspects of it, ever. Can you enjoy seeing two females getting intimate? I doubt that. If you're a Gay Male, you will always be attracted towards two males, or a male doing something romantic, because like I said, you're trying to extract homosexuality from whatever that is present in front of you. So, there is nothing wrong, but the only suggestion that I would like to give you, based on my physical as well as non-physical experiences in life, is that don't overdo anything. You should not do too much of anything. If you watch adult entertainment, then, it is okay, but don't overdo it. If you masturbate daily while watching it daily, then, try to minimize that. Because this is a very addictive thing. Chasing something is one thing, but making it a beautiful part of your life and keeping it under control is also a very important thing.

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