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No Nut November - Motivation & an Alternative
The way we do Fasting. Just Fasting for 10 days, and eating junk food for the rest of the year will not help. Today's youth (or the guys who meet me or want to meet me) somewhere have the expectation that the 'ding dong' between us should be similar to that which they watch in those videos [sniggers]. If sex were a sin (whether straight or gay), this world would have been destroyed long long ago. If that's all you think throughout the day, or are constantly trying to watch that throughout the day, then there is some kind of abnormality for sure.
Before doing anything in life, you should always think about WHY you're doing that. Yes, if you're doing something, because you see others doing the same thing, then that's also a valid reason. Now, whether that is a good reason or not is another story, but why is it essential to know the reason behind doing something that you intend to do? That's because that's what gives you the motivation, enthusiasm, and it gives longevity to that task. In the sense, if you do something just without even knowing why you're doing that, then it does not last for very long. When you know the reason, and you're convinced about the reason, that's when you do it with 100% (or even more) dedication, and love, and that's when it gives you the results that you desire.
On the same lines, you may have heard of No Nut November i.e. not masturbating (or picking up the challenge to not masturbate) throughout the month of November. It is not just about not masturbating, it is also about avoiding all the activities that may provoke you in that direction. Now, it is not just about not masturbating. You don't achieve anything by just "not masturbating". It is about gaining (or trying to gain) control over your own mind. It is about keeping your mind engaged in non-sexual activities. If you think WHY you should do such a task, then this video is not for you for now. However, if you think that it is impossible, then there are some alternatives, some steps that you can take in order to take up this challenge or do something that is in the direction of progress.
Disclaimer: Thinking about sex or doing it is NOT a sin. Like I always say, if sex were a sin (whether straight or gay), this world would have been destroyed long long ago. However, yes, if that's all you think throughout the day, or are constantly trying to watch that throughout the day, or spend the whole day talking just about those things with your friends, then there is some kind of abnormality for sure. The way we do Fasting. Just Fasting for 10 days, and eating junk food for the rest of the year will not help. Fasting is done to cleanse the body. It is like the Cleaning Process for the body. God does not need us to do anything for Him. Someone wrote to me on WhatsApp that God does so much for us. What do we do in return for His happiness or to please Him? [The answer to that is] "HAPPY" is the definition of God. God does NOT need us to make Him Happy or to do anything for His Happiness. God is Happiness, isn't it? So, [sucks teeth] I don't want to take this video in a different direction, but if we keep checking our diet throughout the year, and eat proper food, then we may not even need to do Fasting. Similarly, just not masturbating for 30 days and then doing it every day for the rest of the year is not going to help. It is important to have regularity. Similar to New Year Resolutions that we make in January and forget them by April / May.
As far as Porn is concerned, it should not at all be watched in life, because that is not how real life sex is at all. Today's youth (or the guys who meet me or want to meet me) somewhere have the expectation that the 'ding dong' (sex) between us should be similar to that which they watch in those videos [sniggers]. That is not how it works for me, because I'm a very romantic guy. But this is not about me. See, any experience that you to have in any area of life, it should be enriching in nature. Like I always say, if you have affection / love the opposite person or the opposite person has the same for you, then doing that physical act (sex) with that person takes that experience to another level. So, having wrong notions about anything in life does not help at all. Yes, if you're someone who wants to keep life at a shallow level and have only pornography-like sexual expectations from another person, then I'm shocked that you're still watching this video.
Besides not watching porn, a few things that you can take up are: STAYING CALM AND COOL as much as possible. Keeping yourself engaged in PRODUCTIVE ACTIVITIES. Activities that can help you grow and progress in life. Focus on SAVING MONEY (this really works) as much as you can. Focus on being JUDICIOUS and PRUDENT about how much you spend throughout November, for example. Eating RIGHT kinds of FOOD ITEMS. Try to avoid JUNK FOOD at least during this phase. Try to be FOCUSED ON YOURSELF, instead of attempting to change the world out there. Take out some time DAILY for Exercising / Workout. It does not have to be rigorous, but at least a little bit. That depends on your Body, your Body Type, your Age, Health, your Physical Abilities, and everything else. And the most important thing is to QUIETEN YOUR MIND and MEDITATE for some time DAILY. At least 5 minutes. At least 3 minutes without fail. Daily. Try this and your life will transform.
Doing something when you are masturbating daily or thinking about sex every now and then is not the same as doing something when you are in the phase of controlling yourself for a couple of days. My Mind Exercise (called Reset Your Penis) is essentially about resetting your Thinking, your Perspectives, and your Outlooks towards things. So, it is not just about "not masturbating for 30 days and then doing it for the rest of the year". Like I said, it is like Fasting. Fasting for 2 days in a week, and eating junk food for the rest of the week does not benefit at all. It is important to have REGULARITY and CONSISTENCY and 7 days is a good enough period to practice not masturbating and resetting your way of looking at things. It is important to have REGULARITY in whatever it is that you practice, and not just practice something for a period just because everybody else is doing that and then not doing anything about it for the rest of the year just like everybody else as well. So, if you really want to achieve something in life, try to have CONSISTENCY throughout the year. But then you can begin with 7 days and practice it multiple times as often as you can. Try your best. It is easy. It is possible.
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